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The Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System

319v9CXqJpL._SY300_That is most definitely true – power is really about getting others to submit to you and it doesn’t get any better if sexual submission from your partner comes in the form of muffled moans that want you to explore her even more!

So, what exactly is the Fantasy training system?

If you are new to bondage and being gagged, the The Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System training system is perfect for you because it is versatile enough to be able to allow you to start small and gradually work your way up to a larger gag through easily adjustable snaps and straps made of non-toxic plastic and high-quality leather.

This ball gag is going to let your partner have control on at least a couple of holes. The breathing holes we mean – what did you think?

So, if you are a newbie to these sensations, the three stage Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System is going to be a lot of fun.

Unlike most other sex toys available for purchase, this one does not look and feel gaudy and cheap. This Ball Gag is classy and the O rings on either side of the mouth area make the straps fit comfortably on your face eliminating the likelyhood of slipping.

As you probably already know, bondage (BDSM) is the practice of tying people up for pleasure. The Fantasy training system is a top quality BDSM product that’s going to allow the ultimate form of submission in bed in no time, and of course the product is versatile enough to satisfy everyone from newbie to seasoned users.

This Ball Gag is going to make your partner want to submit more often because of the built-in comfort factors. High quality construction means it’s going to last long with some careful – and yes, some “not so careful” usage!

The million-dollar question here is, is the Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System a must have?

Of course it’s not a must-have if you just want to make babies! But, for the rest of us who are looking for ways to add spice to our sex lives, the Fantasy training system is a must-have.

Some people ask is a ball gag scarey to use? The ball gag is a “limiting” sex accessory because of the physical limits imposed upon the user by the gag and that is exactly what makes it a scary thing for many.

Hold your thoughts for a moment and time travel into the Neanderthal era and envision yourself as a pristine two legged creature trying to convert a ferocious beast into tasty chunks of food! How would you like to be entertained after your tasty food?

Okay, don’t go too deep! Come back to the present day and ask yourself the same question – how would you like to be entertained after a tasty meal? If you stop fighting the thoughts and decisions imposed upon you by “culture” and education, you will inevitably come up with the same answer as the two legged beast you were a few minutes back!

If a primal sence sex is about suvival of the fittest, and there is always the primotial desire to unleash the beast within you. And, what better way to appease that beast than having your partner willing to submit “everything” with muffled moans and groans urging you to close the gap between “tantalizingly close” and “the union of yin and yang.”

That sounds a bit too poetic? Well, if there is no poetry in sex, you are probably just after making babies! Period! If that’s not the case, ball gags with all those muffled and indiscernible sounds combined with wet wild drooling is the poetry. The Fetish Fantasy Series Ball Gag Training System makes your partner educated enough to understand and imbibe the poetry during play!

The muffled groans and moans are definitely going to be a turn on for you and so is the drooling. If that doesn’t help your excitement levels, the knowledge that your partner is feeling like a humiliated, yet liberated slave (liberated because in reality you care for her) most definitely will.

Getting Kinky: How to Share Your Fetish or Fantasy

8njhrj-640x500Let’s be honest… Most everyone has some type of secret fantasy, fetish, or kinky desire. They have something in the back of their mind (or tucked in the back of a closet) that they are just dying to share with the right partner. But, bringing up the topic with a date or mate can be difficult. How do you go from “sexual fantasies” to “reality”?

Like most things on this blog, we can find the solution in persuasion and influence! So, break out your kama sutra, BDSM gear, or that little nurses outfit, and read on. Below are 5 steps to introducing your partner to what really turns you on.
How To Get Kinky
1) Realize that Fantasies and Kinks are Normal

Before you discuss your desires with anyone else, you first must be comfortable with them yourself. You may well be your partner’s first introduction into the topic. As a result, you will be leading them. If you are comfortable, they will be comfortable. Besides, despite the often sexually-repressive culture, everyone has something a bit “kinky”. So, embrace your inner desires.

Getting comfortable with your desired fetish or fantasy serves two persuasive purposes. First, you end up modeling the type of positive behavior you hope your partner follows. Second, you “normalize” the behavior and request, making it easier for your partner to accept as part of their worldview. When they see you discussing it comfortably, they come to feel that it is a normal and comfortable topic to discuss (and later take part in). So, to be persuasive, get comfortable with your fantasy and accept it…then share it.
2) Communicate that Your Desires are Intimate and Special

There is an unfortunate misconception that fantasies, fetishes, and kink necessarily “objectify” and “distance” lovers from one another. Usually, just the opposite is true. Sharing your secret sexual cravings with a special partner can increase trust and intimacy. It is a special, private piece of who you are that you are giving to someone else.

As a result, be sure to communicate that you want to share your fantasies or fetishes as “something intimate and special, with a special person”. Highlight the fact that your partner is unique, special, and you desire to share the behavior as an intimate experience with them. This operates on the influence principle of “scarcity” – where individuals value more what is special, rare, or unique. So, when you make the request intimate and special, you also make it scarce…and irresistible.
3) Demonstrate that Others are Enjoying It

Pretty much anything you are into has some coverage in movies, magazines, videos, etc. For some reason Netflix movies seem to be a goldmine for fantasy, fetish, and kink. In any case, lightly expose your partner to a bit of that “culture”. Casually comment about an article you read. Select a movie that features that type of fetish. Show them a video online that a “buddy” happened to send you. Begin to expose them to positive representations of the activities you like.

Yes, this does follow another influence principle – the principle of social proof. Individuals often choose to do what they see other people doing (especially when those people enjoy it). So, showing or discussing positive examples of “other people doing” what you desire will make your partner more interested and agreeable to it.